11 Strategies to Build a Peer Network That Challenges and Supports You

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As posted on RollingStone / Culture Council
February 9, 2026
Thomas Andersen, BTA Cannabis CPA Tax, featured as a member of the RollingStone Culture Council’s Expert Panel

For creatives and professionals, a peer network can be invaluable for gaining perspective, accountability and the kind of candid feedback that helps you sharpen your thinking and evolve your work. The best peers don’t just cheer you on; they challenge assumptions, question decisions and support you when the path forward feels uncertain.

Building that kind of network takes intention. It requires showing up consistently, offering value before asking for it and being open to relationships that push you outside your comfort zone. Below, Rolling Stone Culture Council members share their best advice for cultivating peer communities that offer both support and constructive friction, and why those relationships are essential for long-term creative and professional growth.

Seek Connections Outside Your Sphere of Expertise

It’s extremely important to put yourself in rooms and in conversations that expand outside your sphere of expertise. Go to events for other industries, cultivate relationships with people who work in other disciplines or take classes in art or creative writing. You will be surprised at how useful these unexpected connections will be throughout your career. – Bill Connolly, Monotype

Connect With Others Who Support a Cause You Care About

I build my peer network around a cause I care deeply about. For me, that’s sustainability. Connecting with people who share a belief, not just a title, creates relationships that both challenge and support me. That balance keeps my work grounded, honest and creatively strong. – Kelley Swing, Head Case Hair Studio

Assemble People With Different Backgrounds and Experiences

I really believe in assembling a diverse group of people—different ages, different backgrounds, different experiences, different interests, different industries. We, unwittingly, usually operate in a bit of a bubble, talking about the same things with the same core group. I say branch out, ask questions, push your boundaries of knowledge and get ready for some unexpected and helpful surprises! – Scott Cowperthwaite, AfterFiveMedia

Connect With People Whose Opinions Matter to You

Align yourself with someone whose opinion matters to you. If the opinion of this person would make you pause and consider your actions, that’s someone to include whenever possible. I would also say to follow the golden rule. If you want constructive criticism from others, give it back when they ask for it. Don’t ask for a sounding board and only offer praise in return. Help is a two-way street. – Bo Howard, Shapiro

Prioritize Mutual Growth Over Transactional Gains

Actively seek diverse collaborations through industry events, mentorship programs and online forums, prioritizing mutual growth over transactional gains. This is crucial as a professional and creative because it sparks innovation, provides honest feedback and creates a safety net for navigating uncertainties in dynamic fields. – Mark Paulda, Mark Paulda & Co

Look Across Generations and Industries

Connect with people across generations and industries. Seek those who will challenge and champion you at the same time. I always stay curious about perspectives beyond my own and prioritize real conversations (in person or via phone or video). True connection fuels growth, creativity and opportunity. – Marissa Andrada, Marissa Andrada

Seek Other Industry Alphas

I identify and seek out other alphas in my industry to ally with and/or identify as healthy competition. Surrounding oneself with other alphas will provide both supportive sounding boards and actionable critiques from professionals with a demonstrated track record of success. Identifying healthy competition within your network identifies areas where you should become more dynamic and innovative. – Thomas Andersen, BTA Cannabis CPA Tax

Build Your Network Around Thinking Styles, Not Titles

My best tip is to build your peer network intentionally around thinking styles, not titles. I seek people who ask better questions, disagree thoughtfully and aren’t impressed by surface wins. That balance matters because, as a professional and creative, you need both challenge and safety with people who expand your thinking without diluting your voice. – Kristin Marquet, Marquet Media, LLC

Choose Peers Who Celebrate Your Wins Without Competing With Them

Look for people who tell you the truth, not just what feels good. Choose those who celebrate your wins without competing with them. This matters because real growth comes from honest feedback and shared momentum. You need people who push you forward and keep you grounded at the same time. – Becca Brazil, Only 1 Media PR

Make Sure You’re Open to Receiving Feedback

Ask yourself: Do I know how to receive challenging feedback? And do I know how to truly metabolize support and encouragement? For many people, the answer to both is “no.” If you’re not sure, the first step is to sit down with a therapist and explore your openness to feedback and how you can grow in that area. – Jed Brewer, Good Loud Media

Evolve Your Circle as You Grow

Don’t be afraid to evolve your circle as you grow. Build relationships with peers who share your values but also seek out voices beyond your industry who will question your assumptions and stretch your thinking. That balance challenges you to sharpen your work, fuels creativity and keeps you from getting too comfortable, which is essential for staying relevant as both a professional and a creative. – Andy Hale, Hale & Monico

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